Tuesday, September 18, 2012

I’m a Porn Star, and if You Harass Me I Will Punch You in the Balls - Stoya

I can actually remember every time a person at a convention or trade show has touched me inappropriately. My first year at the Venus Fair in Berlin there was a man who shoved two of his fingers into my panty-covered vagina. It was really fast, like he was standing there one second and the next I was trying to figure out how the gusset of my underwear had ended up in my vulva. There was a man in Texas who rather violently squeezed my ass while we were taking a picture and then laughed at how I'd "squealed like a piglet." Seriously. I'm kind of disappointed by how much of a stereotype he was. At AVN this year, a guy grabbed my forearm while I was walking from the elevators to Digital Playground's booth. He let go when I punched him in the testicle area. There's an average of three people per convention who try the more subtle approach of sliding their hand a bit too far down my back when I stand next to them for a photo. Every single one of them apologizes when I gently put their hand back where it belongs and ask them to remember that I am not a blow up doll.

Read the rest of this story here.

I can't tell you how many times this kind of physical abuse (call it whatever you like) has happened to me and it started in school. I'm sad to say that a few of my male classmates were real cunts and treated the girls like they were easily manipulated sex objects but there were others that were perfect gentlemen. My most memorable experience of public groping wasn't as disgusting as the writer's above but just as disturbing. Me and three girlfriends were walking down Long Street one evening when we were cornered by two drunk men. I told them to back off  and they didn't, before I knew it the son of a bitch had copped a feel of my vagination. I was so gobsmacked I launched into Hulk mode and went ape shit on the guy. I chased him down Long Street (running in stiletto's nogal) klapping him all the way with my very heavy handbag. He hid in a restaurant but I found him and had him arrested along with his asshole friend.

Just last week I was at Dizzy's and this little drunk punk groped my bum as I was walking in the door, it was so quick I almost lost him in the crowd, but he got a taste of my vengence when I gave him a talking to.

The point is that this kind of sexual abuse is so prevalent with women that you can ask any woman if she's ever had her boobs/bum/vag felt up without her permission and she will no doubt have a couple of stories to tell you. For most women, it happens so fast there's nothing you can do about it. It's such an invasion of your senses and your body that it either makes you want to weep or fuck someone up. I usually go for the 'fuck someone up' option.

Stand up for yourself if this happens to you! If you know who it was, have them arrested. It's unacceptable and men who think it's okay to do this are capable of much more than the odd grope.

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